Gardening years can disappear in the blink of an eye; memories of
a special flower or plant can flood the senses unexpectedly and transport back
in time.
It would have been my mother’s birthday yesterday – a botanist who
gardened for, what, 60 years? (starting, as a bride, with crocus in a window
box, or, really, her parents British garden during WWII as a teenager, with
quite some responsibility); overall a good life.
My sister visited yesterday and admired my white belladonna lilies
(or naked ladies, Amaryllis belladonna `Hathor’,
see post 26th February) in the garden and in a spectacular vase
(with a few pale pink ones). After wielding the spade and producing about 3
bulbs with flower heads attached I was suddenly transported years back. Passing
them over to her, I said how these had come from a bulb farm in Gembrook originally,
and that almost exactly 25 years ago I’d driven there and been thrilled to have
just 2 bulbs dug up, flower heads perfectly shaking out their skirts. I’d given
one to Mum for her birthday - and kept one.
I have dozens now and this year – after the hot summer? or the wet
spring? – they are flowering prolifically all over the unwatered garden, pink ones nearly
over, white still blooming with heavy heads of scented flowers, impressive when
they bloom in a crispy-dried garden before almost any other plant stirs after
the hot dry summer. (Like planting a tree, planting a bulb or 2 in the early
years of a garden can be immensely rewarding a decade or score years later.) Hot
pink varieties are hard to use in the garden but one or 2 amongst greenery (and
their pale pink sisters) look pretty.
I have been picking belladonna lilies for the house for at least 2
weeks now but – despite the overpowering perfume of the white ones - without
thinking about my mother. Then a visceral response occurred without warning; a
powerful reaction to handling a simple bulb-with-flower head. Gardens can be
filled with memories which add another layer of meaning and joy; an intimate
layer for the gardener, unseen to others’ eyes.
Jill
Weatherhead is horticulturist, garden
designer and principal at Jill
Weatherhead Garden Design who lives in the Dandenong Ranges east of
Melbourne, (www.jillweatherhead.com.au)
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